Aylesbury United were offered a merger, twice, but due to all the behind-the-scenes politics, a mutual agreement between both clubs just wasn't viable and I don't think it ever will be, even though we could be stronger together.
AUFC have, fairly enough, a long and esteemed history that deserves recognition, but at the same time people like Danny Martone have worked bloody hard to build AFC from the ground up, and would sooner walk that see Haywood Way's now famous Red & Black turn Green and White.
Who knows, maybe something could happen in the future, but any merger agreement means both clubs gaining and losing in equal measure.
I have heard both sides of the reasons that the merger failed previously, assume that the truth sits somewhere between both sides version of events.
Agree completely with what you say about Danny, not everyone's cup of tea but you cannot argue with where he has taken the club since it's Stocklake / Haywoods days. Imagine he is as frustrated as anyone to lose a bloody good manager because the club is not financially able to match his ambitions
Both Aylesbury clubs are at their ceiling now and the only way to break through it is to merge. This might mean people leaving their ego at home or just walk away and allow others to come together to create one club (ideally comprising of Aylesbury FC, Aylesbury United FC, Aylesbury United Juniors, Girls, Walking Football and Inclusive plus Bedgrove Dynamos and any other local clubs that want to be part of it).
If a compromise with name and colours cannot be reached then call it AFC Aylesbury or even Aylesbury Town and play in blue and white! History is just that and whilst it should be respected and learnt from, it should not stand in the way of the town of Aylesbury having a club that the local people actually care about